Did The Sexual Revolution Actually Benefit Women? - Mary Eberstadt | Modern Wisdom 698

Last updated: Oct 27, 2023

The video is about the impact of the sexual revolution on women and men. The speaker, Mary Eberstadt, argues that the biggest winners of the sexual revolution have been predatory men, while the biggest losers have been romance men who are not predatory and women and children. She believes that the movement, which promised to give women more freedom and control over their bodies, ended up making women the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family. Eberstadt has written two books on the topic, "Adam and Eve After the Pill" and "Adam and Eve After the Pill Revisited," which explore the paradoxical fallout of the sexual revolution.

This video by Chris Williamson was published on Oct 26, 2023.
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The video is about the impact of the sexual revolution on women.

The speaker, Mary Eberstadt, argues that the biggest winners of the sexual revolution have been predatory men, while the biggest losers have been romance men who are not predatory and women and children. Eberstadt believes that the sexual revolution has led to a sharp rise in divorce rates and cohabitation, and has increased abortion rates. She argues that the pill has changed the intentionality of pregnancy, making it a woman's problem and leading to the normalization of abortion.

Eberstadt also discusses the impact of the sexual revolution on men, arguing that it has led to a change in expectations and has had a significant effect on their behavior.

  • The biggest winners of the sexual revolution have been predatory men.
  • The biggest losers have been romance men who are not predatory and women and children.
  • The movement, which promised to give women more freedom and control over their bodies, ended up making women the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family.
  • The biggest paradox of the sexual revolution is that it promised to empower women but ended up making them the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family.
  • The author has spent two books trying to explain these paradoxes.
  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in abortions and out-of-wedlock births.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in single parent households, which were almost exclusively mother-led households.
  • The sexual revolution began in the 1960s with the approval of the birth control pill.

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The Sexual Revolution and Women

  • The biggest winners of the sexual revolution have been predatory men.
  • The biggest losers have been romance men who are not predatory and women and children.
  • The movement, which promised to give women more freedom and control over their bodies, ended up making women the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family.
  • The biggest paradox of the sexual revolution is that it promised to empower women but ended up making them the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family.
  • The author has spent two books trying to explain these paradoxes.
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The Sexual Revolution and Marriage

  • The early 1960s before most people listening were born, there was a lot of hope about the advent of the birth control pill.
  • It was believed that the pill would strengthen marriage by empowering couples to have control over their fertility.
  • However, within a few years of the adoption of widespread hormonal contraception, instead of strengthening marriage, there was a sharp rise in divorce rates.
  • Cohabitation became more common instead of the pill reducing abortion.
  • Abortion rates skyrocketed into the millions within a few years of the same cultural change.
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The Sexual Revolution and Abortion

  • Contraception does not reduce abortion.
  • Contraception increases abortion by changing intentionality.
  • Pregnancy is no longer seen as a problem for two people but rather a woman's problem.
  • The adoption of contraception effectively ended the "shotgun wedding".
  • The effect of this change on men is something that needs to be talked about.
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The Sexual Revolution and Men

  • The biggest paradox of the sexual revolution is that it promised to empower women but ended up making them the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family.
  • The biggest winners of the sexual revolution have been predatory men.
  • The biggest losers have been romance men who are not predatory and women and children.
  • The author has spent two books trying to explain these paradoxes.
  • The reality of the effects of the sexual revolution is upon us, regardless of what you believe.
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The Sexual Revolution and Men

  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The message of the sexual revolution was that autonomy was all that counted.
  • The traditional family was sidelined and the role of men was diminished.
  • The increase in abortions, out-of-wedlock births, and single parent households was a result of the sexual revolution.
  • The sexual revolution began in the 1960s with the approval of the birth control pill.
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The Sexual Revolution and Women

  • The sexual revolution gave women more control over their bodies.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in abortions and out-of-wedlock births.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in single parent households, which were almost exclusively mother-led households.
  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The sexual revolution began in the 1960s with the approval of the birth control pill.
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The Sexual Revolution and Consequences

  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in abortions and out-of-wedlock births.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in single parent households, which were almost exclusively mother-led households.
  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The sexual revolution began in the 1960s with the approval of the birth control pill.
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The Sexual Revolution and Popular Culture

  • The popular culture of the 1990s gave clear evidence that the post-revolutionary age was not a good age for kids.
  • The music of the 1990s, including Eminem, gave evidence of the negative impact of the sexual revolution on children.
  • The popular culture of the 1990s reflected the decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The popular culture of the 1990s reflected the increase in abortions, out-of-wedlock births, and single parent households.
  • The popular culture of the 1990s reflected the decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
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The Sexual Revolution and the Fallout

  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in abortions and out-of-wedlock births.
  • The sexual revolution led to an increase in single parent households, which were almost exclusively mother-led households.
  • The sexual revolution led to a decline in the role of men as protectors and providers.
  • The sexual revolution began in the 1960s with the approval of the birth control pill.
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Themes of Anger and Dysfunction

  • The video discusses the themes of anger and dysfunction among rappers and rockers who grew up in fatherless homes.
  • The need to protect younger siblings from adults who cannot be trusted is a common theme among these artists.
  • The post-revolutionary world is not okay by the kids, according to the video.
  • The misogyny in rap music is a significant issue, but the video delves deeper into the genre.
  • The video provides evidence that the music is speaking to millions of kids and their experiences growing up in fatherless homes.
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Songs about Sad Childhoods

  • Tupac Shakur's song "Papa's Song" is one of the saddest set of lyrics the speaker has ever seen.
  • The song is about a boy trying to play catch by himself and is addressed to his father.
  • The song speaks to the millions of kids who put rappers like Eminem on the top of the charts.
  • The video highlights the pivot in the music industry after the sexual revolution.
  • The debate about the sexual revolution and its impact on men, women, and children is ongoing.
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Discussion on the Sexual Revolution

  • The speaker is aware of the conference describing the impact of the sexual revolution on children.
  • The debate about the sexual revolution and its impact on men, women, and children is taking place in various countries of the west.
  • The video highlights the percolation of ideas and the importance of keeping hammering at them long enough.
  • The video provides evidence that ordinary westerners are starting to ask important questions about the impact of the sexual revolution.
  • The video discusses the impact of the sexual revolution on divorce rates and cohabitation rates.
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The Sexual Revolution and Women's Liberation

  • The sexual revolution of the 1960s promised to give women more freedom and control over their bodies.
  • However, research indicates that people who cohabitate are more likely to break up than people who marry.
  • The risks of abuse to children are highest in homes without a biological father.
  • The social science is unambiguous and has been for decades.
  • The debate and discussion around the sexual revolution and the contraceptive pill are often repressed.
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The Party is Out of Control

  • The former omera, or the wild party started by the sexual revolution, has been broken.
  • The party needs to be addressed, but nobody wants to be the first one to snitch.
  • The immediate gratification of our based desires is not the best for women.
  • Feminists should have been the front vanguard of fourth wave feminism.
  • Feminism took a wrong turn after the 1960s and stopped putting women first.
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The Effects of Pornography

  • Feminists in the 1960s and 1970s opposed pornography as bad for human relationships.
  • By the 1980s and 1990s, feminist voices defended pornography as a woman's right.
  • Pornography is bad for both sexes and romance.
  • There is a legitimate feminist case against pornography.
  • A woman should be completely liberated with her sexuality as much as possible.
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The Need for Course Correction

  • There is a need for a course correction in feminism.
  • Feminist voices are asking about whether pornography is okay.
  • The legitimate feminist case against pornography is being re-examined.
  • A woman should be completely liberated with her sexuality as much as possible.
  • The social science is unambiguous and has been for decades.
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The Sexual Revolution and Women's Freedom

  • The sexual revolution promised to give women more freedom and control over their bodies.
  • However, the biggest winners of the sexual revolution have been predatory men.
  • The biggest losers have been romance men who are not predatory and women and children.
  • The movement, which promised to give women more freedom, ended up making women the victims of a culture that decoupled sex from marriage and family.
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The Reduction in Men's Standards

  • The sexual marketplace is flooded with potentially available partners, which reduces the incentives for men to settle down with any single partner.
  • This puts a major barrier into marriage and hence having children within marriage.
  • Men need to meet a pretty thorough set of criteria to get sex, which includes being an upstanding member of society with a good job and being well known in the local community.
  • The reduction in men's standards is partly at the feet of the reduction in what women ask in order for men to be able to get access to sex.
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The Lowering of Standards for Both Sexes

  • There has been a lowering of the standards for both sexes.
  • The biggest problem is that men are not being given their due, including the privilege of protecting a woman and children.
  • The idea that this is even a privilege is dangerously close to being lost in our culture.
  • Instead of being given things to live up to and strive for, millions of young men are involved in pornography, which is game over for romance.
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